Want to Become a Better Musician? Stop Playing and Do This Instead

Jon Clemence
6 min readMar 24, 2023
Scrabble tiles arranged to form the phrase “listen more.”
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When I was a kid, the adults in my life often said, “God gave you two ears and one mouth so that you would listen twice as much as you speak.”

As a society, many of us seem to have forgotten that message. Much public discourse, to our detriment and shame, is really nothing more than attempts to speak over one another. It seems few are willing to hear out any competing viewpoints, and thus many miss out on the learning and growing that occurs in genuine, respectful debate.

This epidemic lack of listening is certainly not good for society, but there is another area where listening is also just as critical: music.

I don’t just mean the obvious — that you interact with music by listening to it. I mean that it’s subtle listening, really listening, that is an art you must master if you want to become a better musician. This includes broadening your musical tastes, refining your ear for music, and focusing on both others’ playing and singing and your own.

So let’s take a look at the four ways listening can make you a better musician.

Listen to good music — period

When I was young, I liked classic rock and, well, not much else. After all, I played the guitar, and the heyday of guitar-based…

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Jon Clemence

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